Basically, humans like to be given... if we are still alive in the world, when we want something, then suddenly someone comes who gives gifts as we want, of course our hearts will be happy...”fortune”.
Also, if no one gives, we can make an effort. With iktisab / effort can buy yourself with our money... already can, Happy. Alhamdulillah..
But there comes a time, when we will be in the realm of barzakh... when we want something can not be with our own efforts and iktisab... Allah limits everything for us... the day when All Charity is cut off, except *charity sholih, shidaqoh jariyah and children sholih who always pray*.
These are three things we can expect when we are in barzakh. Happiness in barzakh is not a worldly pleasure anymore. Happiness in the realm of barzakh is when we are free from the torment of the grave, our graves are dilapidated, illuminated, and spread a rug so that we can sleep to rest while waiting for the day of judgment to arrive.
The grave expert will be happy when he gets a package of prayers from his heirs in the world, prayers from family, friends, relatives, and from his brothers and sisters who are still alive in the world.
Come on, in the night of the noble month of Sha'ban we intend goodness, sending the best du'a to our parents, our fathers, our mothers, grandparents, uncles-aunts, guru2 US, relatives, distant family, neighbors, friends, relatives, and all the people we love and love.
God willing, we will make them smile, because we get a prayer from our son, who is still alive. Now that we have done good to our parents, we hope that our children will do good to us.
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